Sunday evening. The girls are finally asleep. I reheat my tea for the third time and sit down to plan next week’s schedule. A family from Germany emailed today — they want a 14-day trip covering Shanghai, Guilin, and Chengdu. I’ve done this route a dozen times but every family is different. This one has two kids aged 7 and 10, so I’m thinking: fewer temples, more food markets, and at least one panda encounter they’ll talk about for years. Sunday evenings at home are my reset button.

The most common question I get from families: "Is China safe for kids?" Short answer: yes. Long answer: I've been raising my two kids here for years, and the things I worry about in China are different from what parents worry about back home. I don't worry about stranger danger — Chinese people adore children and will go out of their way to help if your kid is upset. A crying child in a Chinese park attracts grandmas like a magnet. They'll produce snacks, toys, and comforting pats from nowhere. I don't worry about traffic — Chinese drivers are chaotic but aware. They expect pedestrians to do unpredictable things. What I do worry about: heat (summers are brutal in most cities), food spice levels (my kids eat mild, ask for 不辣 at restaurants), and bathroom access (not all public toilets are kid-friendly — I always scout one before the kids announce they need it). More detailed tips on the family travel guide. But the bottom line: if you survived a trip with kids anywhere, you'll survive China. And your kids will eat more dumplings than you thought possible.

The weekend is almost over. Both girls are asleep. The kitchen is clean (finally). I'm sitting on the balcony with a cup of cold tea that I reheated twice and forgot to drink. Sunday evenings always feel like this — a little tired, a little grateful. This week I'll be planning trips for a Swiss family who wants to see Zhangjiajie and a Canadian couple who want to eat their way through Chengdu. Not a bad way to start the week. Goodnight, everyone.

Sunday evening ritual: both girls in the bath, water everywhere, my younger one using her rubber duck as a submarine to "attack" her sister's boat. The bathroom floor is a lake. I'll have to mop it later. But right now I'm leaning against the doorframe listening to them giggle and negotiate bath toy treaties. This is the part of parenting no one puts on Instagram. And honestly? It's the best part.