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A British couple joined me for dinner at a local restaurant in Chongqing. When the food arrived — six dishes for four people — the husband looked confused. "Should I order my own plate?" I explained: in China, you do not order for yourself. Dishes go in the center of the table and everyone shares. The round table with the rotating glass top (lazy susan) is designed for this. You spin it, take what you want, spin it to the next person. There are rules nobody tells you: wait for the host to start eating first. Do not stick your chopsticks upright in your rice bowl (that is for funerals). If you are the host, order one dish per person plus one more. The fish should face the guest of honor. The British guy spent the whole dinner trying to serve others before serving himself — which is actually the correct Chinese way of showing respect. By the end of the meal he had figured out the rhythm: you eat, you talk, you spin, you repeat. He told me: "This is how dinner should be. It is social. Western dining feels so lonely in comparison." He is not wrong. The round table is not just furniture — it is a philosophy. No head of the table. No separate plates. Just everyone eating from the same dishes, connected by a spinning circle of food.
