WanderPeng
June 16, 2026
A British couple joined me for dinner at a local restaurant in Chongqing. When the food arrived — six dishes for four people — the husband looked confused. "Should I order my own plate?" I explained: in China, you do not order for yourself. Dishes go in the center of the table and everyone shares. The round table with the rotating glass top (lazy susan) is designed for this. You spin it, take what you want, spin it to the next person. There are rules nobody tells you: wait for the host to start eating first. Do not stick your chopsticks upright in your rice bowl (that is for funerals). If you are the host, order one dish per person plus one more. The fish should face the guest of honor. The British guy spent the whole dinner trying to serve others before serving himself — which is actually the correct Chinese way of showing respect. By the end of the meal he had figured out the rhythm: you eat, you talk, you spin, you repeat. He told me: "This is how dinner should be. It is social. Western dining feels so lonely in comparison." He is not wrong. The round table is not just furniture — it is a philosophy. No head of the table. No separate plates. Just everyone eating from the same dishes, connected by a spinning circle of food.

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I get this question at least twice a week: "Peng, how many days do I need in Beijing?" The honest answer: 4 days minimum. 5 if you want to breathe. Day 1: Forbidden City + Jingshan Park (book tickets a week ahead) Day 2: Great Wall — leave by 6:30am, Mutianyu is closest Day 3: Temple of Heaven in the morning, Summer Palace after lunch Day 4: Hutong walking tour + 798 Art District Day 5 (optional): Xi'an — take the 4.5hr high-speed train, see the Terracotta Warriors This isn't a rushed itinerary. It's what I've refined over 15 years of bringing clients here. You could do it in 3 days but you'd hate yourself by day 2. Want a full day-by-day plan? That's what I do. Just ask.

Jun 24· beijing · chinatravel

Client tip I give everyone: book the Great Wall for a Tuesday or Wednesday morning. Arrive before 8am. Why? I took a family from Melbourne to Mutianyu last Thursday. We got there at 7:45. Had the entire section to ourselves for a full hour. No crowds, no noise, just the wall stretching into the mist. By 9:30 the tour buses started arriving. By 10 it was shoulder-to-shoulder. We were already heading down on the toboggan run laughing our heads off. Timing is everything in China travel. I've been doing this 15 years — I know which spots to hit early and which to skip entirely. If you want my honest itinerary tips, just ask. I don't gatekeep.

Jun 24· greatwall · beijing

Someone in my DMs just asked: "Is Chongqing worth visiting?" Let me tell you about the last time I took a client there. We arrived at night. Stepped out of the airport, and she stopped dead. The entire city was glowing — skyscrapers built into mountains, lights reflecting off the river, bridges crisscrossing in every direction. She said: "This looks like a movie set." Next morning we ate noodles at a tiny shop my friend runs. Bowl of chongqing xiaomian — 8 yuan, and she said it was the best thing she'd eaten in China. That afternoon we took the Yangtze River cable car across the city. She was pressed against the window taking videos the whole way. At dinner she asked me: "Why don't more tourists come here?" Good question. I don't know either. But my clients do.

Jun 24· chongqing · chinatravel

A client from Texas asked me last week: "Do I really need WeChat Pay and Alipay, or can I just use cash?" Short answer: bring cash as backup, but you'll struggle without the apps. Here's the reality: even street vendors in Chengdu now have QR codes. I watched a French tourist try to buy an egg crepe (jianbing) with a 100 yuan note last month. The vendor couldn't make change. The guy behind him in line scanned a QR code and paid for it. The Frenchman looked so confused I stepped in and helped him set up Alipay on the spot. My advice: set up Alipay before you leave home. Link your international card. It takes 10 minutes and saves you a hundred awkward moments. Need help? I wrote a step-by-step guide. Link in bio.

Jun 24· chinatravel · traveltips